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Happy Mothers day! Shed the guilt for being you

Pic source : pixabay  Today is Mother's day. The day when our children cluelessly wish us "Happy mothers day". It is a special day when we acknowledge the hard work that goes into being a mom.  A roles of a mother has so much dichotomy. We wear many faces but have to make sure that the most pleasant face is the one showing. While you are trying to manage all your ten roles, the most important is the one that makes sure your kids see you as a juggler supermom, who means well and not as a scary monster, who is out to get them. As a mother and in general, why do we feel the need to juggle so many roles? Simply because it's mandatory to be perfect and better than the others.  Thats what they said. And they still say so much. If you have a career, they say you are too busy for you kids. If you are a stay at home-mom,  they say you can do more. And if you do both well, and get close to their "Perfect". They'd simply change the goalpost If you cook well, they s...

Be your child's Spiderman not Green Goblin

Are you a parent yet? Most part of childhood, our children equate their parents to Superheroes. In your child's eyes, a Superhero doesn't err. And I am sure we parents recognize and agree to Spiderman when he says  "with great power comes great responsibility". I do believe that parenting is a scientific process as much as an emotional journey. Every action has an affect on our child's brain. You might notice, there are famous parents' children who are infamous for the way they are handling their life. On the other hand there are celebrity children who are as driven as their parents. We also see most successful people are self-made. As a parent, I wonder, if we are doing all the right things or are we doing what we know as "right"? A Seal , starts teaching its young one, from the age of 2 weeks, to swim in the sea and identify the right air holes in ice to pass through. An Orangutan  makes its child a young apprentice to learn to pick th...